Worn out and lovin it

Someday, when my boys are grown I plan to visit their homes. I look forward to that day when I can accept a canned drink from them and promptly pull the little tabby thing off to deposit inside my can.

I am already practicing the look for when I say, "oh, did you not want me to do that?"

And that is the stage of parenting I have entered. The stage where the things they do continuously can be annoying, but aren't that bad. And I wouldn't think to correct another person outside my family. So I have to seriously consider if it is necessary to harp on them all day. Actually, no consideration needed - I know it isn't, but man it might be fun. And yet, not so productive.

See the back and forth in my mind?

In all seriousness, school started back this year and my kids are exponentially older. With this school year I have a high schooler, another middle schooler and a 6th grader who is so over elementary school. Plus, a baby who doesn't even look back while she runs from the car in the morning. All summer it was easy to believe that they were all still just kids forever  hanging out and making messes.

Now they are suddenly so grown up. And the child who I was the most worried about has had a wonderful transition. Not only has it been fairly easy, but any problems have been simply humorous stories to share over snack. What a relief! On the other hand, the child who hasn't needed a thing for several years has cried both afternoons. And evenings. And still sniffling at bedtime.

Totally wasn't expecting that. And yet it sums up the stage of parenting I have entered. Two steps forward and one back. Totally capable and very hesitant. Very grown up and confident and needs momma.

I am totally lovin this new stage and totally worn out by it.

Comments

[debbie g.]

This was an awesome post...so true.And funny! Just when you think you have everything figure out,the game changes!

[Luanne]

Completely agree with Debbie. You just never know. (By the way, good job keeping everyone anonymous--as a mom of older kids, I know the importance of that!)